Control is about a lot more than simply being able to make a choice. Control is about being able to choose the currency with which you will pay for that choice.
a tip on getting where you want to go
Is there a significant difference between intention and drive? Of course!
Intention is a sign that points you in the right direction, but Drive is the engine that will get you where you want to be.
Use ’em both wisely to get where you want to go, and maybe even become what you want to be.
on developing character
self-discipline: an affordable investment
Doing something that you don’t particularly care about now so that you can experience something you do care very much about in the future.
how to get things done
The Scenario: Who isn’t consistently under pressure to complete tasks & projects? But you have a choice: You can PUSH THROUGH them to “Get them off your plate” or make the time to WORK THROUGH them to the best of your abilities.
WORK THROUGH is taking active control of the momentum of whatever you’re doing. This happens when you consciously make one decision after another, purposefully linking them together in a calculated series until you achieve your outcome.
Insight: Since choosing to WORK THROUGH involves consciously making repeated decisions, two very useful things tend to happen: (1) Each successive decision you make strengthens your ability to keep on making even better decisions as you move on. (2) Since you’re actively guiding your decisions, you’re very likely to achieve whatever effect or outcome you have in mind; you get done precisely what you wanted to get done.
PUSH THROUGH is rolling with the momentum of whatever activity you’re doing. You simply continue your efforts until some manner of conclusive “decision” is generated for you by circumstance.
Insight: Since choosing PUSH THROUGH involves avoiding proactive decisions, there is the real danger of ending up a victim of your circumstances. Should you let this happen, the quality of your outcome will reflect your choices, and you’ll have missed an opportunity to cultivate your potential.
The Takeaway: When you find yourself under the gun, take a moment to reconfirm your completion strategy: Will you WORK THROUGH by making decisions or will you PUSH THROUGH and accept the default outcome. Both options are usually available to you, so stay mindful that the choice is yours.
why not just begin now
Need some ideas for your New Year’s Resolutions? How about…
Strive to become a vital, wealthy, self-made individual who lives an interesting, dynamic, and engaging life, cultivated through enthusiastically principled living, gratifying personal achievements, potent self-awareness, and building a better world one individual at a time.
Enjoy living your best!
find the hero within
Looking to find the heroic in you?
- Take the INITIATIVE to challenge assumptions.
- Find within yourself the COURAGE to set positive change in motion.
- Exercise your WILL to follow through on positive transformation.
You can… and it is worth the effort.
Live your best!