A question is truly a question only when you truly expect that there is a concrete answer to it within your reach.
Unfortunately, from time to time we find ourselves asking questions – especially of ourselves – that we don’t really believe have a reachable answer. This usually happens when we feel angry or frustrated or anxious about something, and so we often end up feeling dissatisfied, weak or even powerless just from asking.
The upshot is that these “questions” often sound & feel like lamentation or whining; this is so because that is precisely what they are.
Consider this thoroughly, and find yourself well-prepared the next time you ask yourself “Why?”.